Paraplegics dating websites dating ideas for men
It is societies intolerance of the imperfect that is wrong.You can't blame everything on society, we are genetically programmed to seek out the strongest, the fitest for procreation. I am here to try and keep your hopes up, totell you not to sacrifice or settle down on your expectations, that there are acceptingpeople out there that would desperately choose love over some lessor issues with mobility.Honestly, I think you would do better in a activity based group of mixed singles.There are such groups around for people that enjoy the sports and activities that you do.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I was on several dating sites prior to this and do not want to sound too full of myself when I say I was "overwhelmed" with responses. Ironically, I had a marriage proposal the night before I broke my back. Once I had licked my wounds and felt ready to try this again, I posted my profile. I am tiring of hearing how I really do not need to meet anyone who is so low in character, not worthy of,,,,,,,etc, etc. You should seriously be proud of yourself, for your strength and your bravery. But a healthy sex life is an important part of a relationship, and for some people more than others, it can be even more important to them. perhaps it scares guys away for the same reason that women with kids have a hard time attracting men and getting dates. But when they see that you are in a wheelchair, they think it means they are signing up as a nursemaid, and a chairpusher, and a caretaker/babysitter type of thing. I'm just a very honest person, who doesn't BS people or sugarcoat stuff.I am having a very hard time of going from one end of the desirable scale to the other virtually overnight. To overcome an injury like that is a wonderful thing. But as far as dating, one reason guys might tend to get freaked out, and "run for the hills", could be because they have cncerns that they are about to get involved in a no-sex-possible relationship. Visions of wheeling you everywhere, helping you up and down, and into vehicles, tending to your needs, etc. I'm just speculating, and I hope you know that I know better. Hell, if I were faced with a similar situation, I might think things like that myself, not knowing anything about the woman.
The problem is, that you have not yet adapted to it. To adapt to the new person in the new circumstances that you are in.
My ego is shot to bits as I am constantly passed over worse. Or at best, sex with someone who can't move at all, and can't feel anything. Now hey, I KNOW that you are a strong and independent woman. It's like the guy who finds out that "She's got a kid! ) and thinks, "Hell, I'm looking to become a boyfriend. Having the responsibility for someone else's life, (someone you didn't even know yesterday), dropped into your lap overnight... Anyway, like I said, I am just tossing out ideas here, as they pop into my head.
Imagine having someone hounding you to get together but they have failed to read the profile. Take 'em for what they're worth (if anything) and please don't be offended.
All it is meant to do is to give you greater exposure to people you may not have met otherwise. That's like saying that the people with lots of "Favorites" are better than the rest of us. Be strong in knowing who you are and what you have to offer in a relationship.
You are in a position of being able to see people for what they truly are. It appears to me that OP has accepted herself and has adjusted to the changes in her life.
The one who will love you will only see the beauty within you.